Marriage

Hi Everyone,

This seems to be the most common and oldest topic known to human beings. :) But each of us on entering into this holy matrimony finds him/her self standing at the beginning of this "obstacle" course. We have to go through all the obstacles which would take us a lifetime, and when we look back after crossing these can be proud that u withstood the test of time, and keep going on...

Hey...its not really all that bad or tough. Its a matter of understanding ur partner.

So many books have been written on this relation, but its up to the two people in the midst who have to show maturity, love, care and compromise to take the relation to the next level.

When i was to get married, i had read a few books and beleived was quite ready and understood women. Well i did, but wasn't upto the mark to handle it. My wife would be upset on certain occassion, and i knew it was something i said or did to hurt her. I would initially try to make her happy, but then when she didn't, thanks to my short temper would make the situation worse...:(
Mebbe thats why they say "Men are from Mars and Women Venus..."
Gradually i learnt to be more patient and my wife also learnt to trust me.

Well..The brighter side of marriage definately overweight these efforts. You have someone you could call your own, someone who beleives you and loves you the most...someone whom you can trust is waiting for you, cares whether you took your medicines on time. Our search for a person who understands and someone whom you can share all is met.

This is such a long topic...would take for ever to cover all the points...


Not bad for my first blog...i guess!

Happy Valentines day!!
Sim